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So I posted a while back. But I have made no progress and want some real hands on advice on how to slowly introduce the idea of sharing her with someone else. 

Let me introduce her so you understand what I'm working with here. We have been together over 10 years. She's beautiful (see photos below) but I'm the only guy she has ever been with. I took her virginity and I am the only cock she has seen (in person) and touched. 

 

We have a great sex life, she loves fucking me and we both make each other cum very hard, having said this we never have watched porn together so even introducing this is a big step at the moment. 

 

I know I'm asking for a lot, but help me out guys how do I approach this? 

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Gracie

I saw somebody else in another posting mention a Netflix series called You Me Her or something like that.  It is about a 3some relationship.  That might be a subtle way of doing it, but I have not seen that program.

I do suggest you start watching porn with her.  Don't over do it at first, but make the porn cuckold porn with the husband in the video.

You can also go out dancing with her, getting her to dress very sexy.  That might take some convincing on your part.  Then really encourage her to dance with other guys.  Or somehow encourage other guys to dance with her or at least to flirt with her.

If that happens, either the dancing or the flirting, express that you found that to be so hot and you are proud of her for doing it.

The pics are hot.  You have a great wife.  Keep working at it and don't give up.  Eventually, you may have to just come out and tell her if nothing else works, but ALWAYS EXPRESS YOUR LOVE.

 

 

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Definitely netflix series YOU ME HER and also EASY, just watched these two series and see together on and off, start with series called EASY as it includes many aspects of relationship and all that.

Then gradually move to cuckold porn after few days and start pulling her legs that you also find it very hot with thought of she getting taken by another man in front of you or in your absence, also tell her she can look hot with any man as you have tried imagine once, keep looking at her while she is getting ready, give her smile, tell her how hot she is etc  

Please pm me for more so i can know more about you and her and share the ideas to make it happen.

Take care.

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Start by telling her that 'you've finally found a purpose to your life', by becoming a cuck and then the discusions begin

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19 minutes ago, mike2711 said:

Start by telling her that 'you've finally found a purpose to your life', by becoming a cuck and then the discusions begin

I appreciate the response, I appreciate all responses. But this is pretty badly thought out from a newbie perspective. You can't go right in the deep end with a wild comment that my purpose in life is to be a cuckold 

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My advice, if your lovely wife is or at least is seeming to be reluctant is to move forward in little steps.  This is a similar position I found myself to be in with my wife, although the big difference was that my wife had enjoyed plenty of men before me (and it would later transpire since) and had quite an interest in porn from the off.  My challenge, was introducing the idea of cucking which can of course be controversial and delicate to say the least.

I started by complimenting her continuously on how hot she looked, how beautiful she was etc.  I would drop in the odd comment about other guys, eg Steve was telling me how hot he thought you looked last night etc etc.  Or I would say "did you see those guys checking you out last night in the pub, they couldn't get enough" etc but making it fun and upbeat.  After a while she would play along, saying yeah I noticed them too, or wanting to know exactly what Steve had said etc.  All about planting a seed and encouraging it to grow.

Porn can obviously help, as can toys.  Buy her a dildo (if she doesn't have one already) and make a big thing out of just watching her pleasure herself without any input from you.  Let her know you are getting off on the idea and image of her enjoying herself.  Introduce porn and use with the toys, start with softcore then work yourself up from there.  There are a number of vids on xhamster and youporn called "Introduction to cuckolding for women" or something along those lines.  They are quite well made and paint the scenario quite nicely.

Ultimately, you will have to lead the way, it won't fall into your lap, but my advice is to do so steadily and don't rush it.  But being open is certainly the best way, albeit in tiny steps bit by bit.

Just my view of course.  Others may differ

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1 hour ago, Leeds Cuck said:

My advice, if your lovely wife is or at least is seeming to be reluctant is to move forward in little steps.  This is a similar position I found myself to be in with my wife, although the big difference was that my wife had enjoyed plenty of men before me (and it would later transpire since) and had quite an interest in porn from the off.  My challenge, was introducing the idea of cucking which can of course be controversial and delicate to say the least.

I started by complimenting her continuously on how hot she looked, how beautiful she was etc.  I would drop in the odd comment about other guys, eg Steve was telling me how hot he thought you looked last night etc etc.  Or I would say "did you see those guys checking you out last night in the pub, they couldn't get enough" etc but making it fun and upbeat.  After a while she would play along, saying yeah I noticed them too, or wanting to know exactly what Steve had said etc.  All about planting a seed and encouraging it to grow.

Porn can obviously help, as can toys.  Buy her a dildo (if she doesn't have one already) and make a big thing out of just watching her pleasure herself without any input from you.  Let her know you are getting off on the idea and image of her enjoying herself.  Introduce porn and use with the toys, start with softcore then work yourself up from there.  There are a number of vids on xhamster and youporn called "Introduction to cuckolding for women" or something along those lines.  They are quite well made and paint the scenario quite nicely.

Ultimately, you will have to lead the way, it won't fall into your lap, but my advice is to do so steadily and don't rush it.  But being open is certainly the best way, albeit in tiny steps bit by bit.

Just my view of course.  Others may differ

Wow thanks very much. This is fantastic advice, I like the introduction of friends commented on her appearance, that's a good way to up her confidence and show that I enjoy that thought process. 

 

Porn might have to slowly enter the relationship. I can bring this up gently, we discussed it last night but she said no never watched it when I masturbate I always just think of how good it feels to get me off. 

 

I'll keep you up to date though. Cause this is fantastic advice. Thanks very much. 

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13 hours ago, Gracie said:

I saw somebody else in another posting mention a Netflix series called You Me Her or something like that.  It is about a 3some relationship.  That might be a subtle way of doing it, but I have not seen that program.

I do suggest you start watching porn with her.  Don't over do it at first, but make the porn cuckold porn with the husband in the video.

You can also go out dancing with her, getting her to dress very sexy.  That might take some convincing on your part.  Then really encourage her to dance with other guys.  Or somehow encourage other guys to dance with her or at least to flirt with her.

If that happens, either the dancing or the flirting, express that you found that to be so hot and you are proud of her for doing it.

The pics are hot.  You have a great wife.  Keep working at it and don't give up.  Eventually, you may have to just come out and tell her if nothing else works, but ALWAYS EXPRESS YOUR LOVE.

 

 

This sounds fantastic to me, I love the idea of accidentally finding the show and putting it on to set how she feels about it all will really gauge how she feels about it all. Thanks very much 

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Gracie

You have gotten some pretty good advice.  Don't wait to start making those compliments like Leeds Cuck mentioned.  You can start out today with something like "when we were out last week to the store (or where ever) I noticed this one guy really checking you out.  He obviously had the hots for you.  I can't get it out of my mind because seeing him checking you out like that was so HOT.  I am proud of you for being so desired by other men."

Use your words but you get the idea.

Let me emphasize:  This won't get done by itself.  Some people are prone to say "don't push" but you must continually offer encouragement and making comments and watching cuck porn etc.  If you don't, it won't happen. 

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11 minutes ago, ConvinceWife said:

This sounds fantastic to me, I love the idea of accidentally finding the show and putting it on to set how she feels about it all will really gauge how she feels about it all. Thanks very much 

Don't rely on what she says while watching that show if it is something negative.  For example, if she says "that is so disgusting" don't give up.  That is just her initial reaction and she may be saying something negative because that is what she thinks you expect her to say.

Instead, YOU say, in response to something she says negatively, that YOU find it very hot.  You think it is awesome that women feel free like that these days.  Or whatever your contrary words are.

But whatever she say if it is negative, DO NOT GIVE UP!!!!  Keep going at it.  You can make it happen if you go for it.

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